Rough Love

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my harassed mother called it 

a lick and a promise, at best it was a 

hurried spit wash around my mouth 

from a dampened corner of her apron, 

her usual rough rub made with love that 

still smarted three streets away 

as I cycled to meet my mates,

only now have I come to I realise that’s 

how people live on in one’s memory, 

in their sayings, habits, doings and actions,

how I wish I had kept her bleached 

white copper stick, that she used to lift

washing from the boiler and importantly

to dispense summary justice to me for 

having the temerity to answer her back, 

I often absentmindedly thumb the scar 

on my elbow, a much-prized defence wound

that still affords me a wry smile

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© Graham R Sherwood 04/24

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